About

Hi, I'm Corenia.

I'm a licensed mental health counselor and certified sex therapist who believes your sexuality is a healthy, worthy part of you — and that healing happens fastest in a space free of shame.

In-person in Bellingham, WA · telehealth across Washington & Arizona.

Corenia Murphy — smiling warmly with short silver-streaked hair, arms gently crossed, wearing a teal top
Corenia Murphy LMHC · CST

My story

How I found my way into this work

I came to sex therapy the way a lot of people come to therapy itself — by noticing how much shame I'd quietly absorbed about bodies, desire, and what "normal" was supposed to mean. The more I sat with clients, the clearer it became: almost no one was actually broken. They'd just never been given a safe, judgment-free place to be curious about themselves.

So I built my practice around that missing place. I trained as a licensed mental health counselor, then went deeper into sexuality and relationships through certified sex therapy coursework, supervised clinical hours, and trauma-focused training. I keep learning constantly, because the people I serve deserve care that's current, evidence-based, and genuinely affirming.

A big part of my focus is purity-culture and faith-based sexual-shame recovery — supporting people who grew up with rigid religious messages about sex and the body as they gently untangle that conditioning and reclaim their bodies, their pleasure, and their choices on their own terms.

What lights me up is the moment a client exhales — when "there's something wrong with me" softens into "oh, this makes sense." Watching someone reclaim their body, their voice, or their relationship on their own terms is the most meaningful work I can imagine doing.

I see clients in person in Bellingham, WA, and offer telehealth across Washington and Arizona — so we can work together whether you're nearby or anywhere in either state.

Credentials & training

Illustrative of the kind of background that informs my care. Real, ongoing, and a little nerdy about staying current.

  • Licensed Mental Health Counselor

    LMHC — master's in clinical mental health counseling, licensed to practice psychotherapy in Washington and Arizona.

  • Certified Sex Therapist

    CST — a Certified Sex Therapist with advanced coursework and supervised clinical hours in human sexuality, desire, and intimacy.

  • Trauma training

    EMDR-informed and grounded in somatic, trauma-focused approaches to safely support nervous systems.

  • Continuing education

    Ongoing study in LGBTQIA+ care, kink & ENM competence, and culturally responsive practice.

What I believe

The values you can count on in our work

These aren't slogans. They shape how every session feels.

  • Sex-positive

    Pleasure and desire are healthy. There's no shameful question and no "too much" here.

  • LGBTQIA+ & gender affirming

    Your identity and pronouns are honored from the first hello — never debated, never "tolerated."

  • Trauma-informed

    We move at the pace of your nervous system. Safety and consent guide everything we do.

  • Body-neutral & anti-diet

    Every body is worthy as it is. No weight talk, no fixing required to deserve pleasure.

  • Anti-racist & culturally humble

    I do my own work, stay accountable, and center your lived experience and context.

  • Neurodivergent-friendly

    Sensory needs, processing styles, and direct communication are welcome and accommodated.

Who I work with

There's a place for you here

I work with adults across the full spectrum of identities, bodies, and relationship structures. If you're not sure whether your situation "counts," it does — reach out and we'll figure it out together.

  • Individuals working on desire, identity, anxiety, or self-trust
  • Couples & partners of every configuration, including ENM & polyamory
  • LGBTQIA+ folks and people exploring gender or orientation
  • Survivors of sexual trauma, healing at their own pace
  • People curious about or already exploring kink and BDSM
  • Anyone navigating desire, arousal, or pain concerns
  • People in purity-culture or religious sexual-shame recovery, reclaiming their bodies and choices

What to expect

Getting started, step by step

Gentle and unhurried, at a pace that feels right for you. Here's how it usually goes.

  1. Reach out

    Send a message through the contact page and book a first session. Tell me as much or as little as you like.

  2. First session (intake)

    A 55-minute session where we get to know each other, name your goals, and begin building a sense of safety together — in person in Bellingham or via telehealth.

  3. Ongoing work

    We meet weekly or biweekly, in person in Bellingham, WA or via telehealth across WA & AZ (Tue–Fri), adjusting as your needs change.

Curious if we'd be a fit?

You don't need the perfect words or a tidy explanation. Reach out and book a first session, and we'll start wherever you are.